C’est La Vie

Have you ever feel left behind? 

you may look at some of your friends and think that they are ahead of you.

it's normal! because I feel it too.

I know we can’t stop comparing ourself with others. 

Especially from others that have same age with us and the life we ​​want and plan doesn't turn out the way we expected.

We question where we went wrong with our own lives that prevented us from having one like theirs.

It may be hard because we all do have a little tendency to dwell so much on perfection, making sure things turn out the way we want and plan them to be, that we spend so much time worrying and overthinking .

We never realize that we are too focused on what we don't have rather than what we have.

So we only spend time to thinking about the flaws in our lifes, as if our lifes were the most miserable .

We never realize that everyone has their own time.

Everyone is running their own race in their own time zone.

I know this seems so naive.

But at this point , i just want to tell you to stop comparing your chapter to someone else’s chapter.

Just because we aren’t where we want to be at the moment, doesn’t mean we won’t get there at all.

Simply because someone else have reached something we want.

We think that their life is perfect than ours. In fact , we do not know how their life really is .

We never know how fabulous or  happy someone’s life may seem on the outside

we never know what’s going on behind closed doors. 

Or Maybe the life we ​​live today can be the life that someone really dreams of.

But we don't realize it because we only think of something we don't have.

Things i should always remember
I just have to be patient and trust in the process.

Love the process for you will become a better version of yourself each day.

So let life happen, enjoy our life,  be grateful and 

let God do the rest.

"Life is about waiting for the right moment.  We must learn to accept what we can’t control.  Because There will always be wisdom behind everything"